How to Select the
Proper Wedding Music
So you've exchanged vows, and have said your 'I do's, now
it's time to head out to the reception and party like you've
never partied before. If you want live music playing in your
reception, then you would want to hire a live band. But first,
you must check with people that rent the venue where you're
going to hold your reception, to see what type of live music
they allow. Some venues have stringent restrictions when it
comes to live music.
The type of music that you choose to play in your wedding
should be an expression of both the bride and groom's
personality, personal taste, and the overall theme of the
wedding.
It's very important to select the right music, because the
music will become a pervading presence all through out the
wedding, and right down to the reception. Music creates an
atmosphere. It will set the mood of your wedding.
During the wedding itself, the choice of music usually
depends on the wedding. Most church ceremonies don't allow
secular music. They stick to more traditional, or religious
music. A man and a woman duet is usually sung during the
ceremony. A church organist usually provides the majority of
the music.
For the reception, the bride and groom has a choice of
recorded music, or live music. If you opt for recorded music,
it would be best to hire the services of a DJ. The best thing
about this, is you can request to have all of your favorite
songs in the playlist. Ask your friends if they know any good
DJs that are willing to play for wedding receptions. If they
don't know any, you could always just search the yellow pages,
internet, or even contact your local radio station.
Once you've settled on a DJ, have a one-on-one discussion
with the DJ. Just to explain what type of entertainment and
mood you want to have during the reception. Also discuss, the
selection of music that you have in mind. Ask if the DJ's
familiar with wedding protocol. If not, you might want to brief
the DJ first about the sensibility of the event.
On the other hand, choosing live music offers you a choice
of hiring a band, soloist, instrumentalists, jazz group, etc.
It all depends on what kind of theme you have in mind for you
wedding.
For more formal weddings, classical groups, piano soloists,
and instrumentalists are more appropriate. It would not be a
bad idea, to also consider the sensibilities of your guests, to
ensure that everyone has a good time!
If you want to have a rocking good time for the reception of
your wedding, then hiring a band is the way to go! The energy
of a live band gets people going. There's nothing else that
spells a rocking good time better, than a rock and roll
band.
Before hiring a band, ask them if you could listen to their
music first. This will help you decide if that particular band
is just right for you. Also discuss, if the band will do emcee
duties, as well as provide the music.
It's best to hire a band that has had previous experience
with wedding receptions. This way, they'd know what to expect,
and will be able to provide the proper entertainment that's
fitting for the occasion.
You always want to keep the music going, so include some
background music even when the meals are being served, or when
the bride and groom are doing their rounds of greeting, having
their pictures taken, etc. This will also maintenance the
atmosphere of the wedding all through out the reception. So
choose wisely, because your choice of music can make or break
this occasion!
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